Love or the idea of love….

     Love or the idea of love….

Do we fall in love with our love ?
Or is it the idea of love that we crave..
Between the endless talks, the numerous ruminations
And the chain of memories , we make assumptions.
Maybe we form an image, an illusion
Of the person we love.
Or we train our hearts , our minds to fathom -
That is how will be the one we adore.
Behind a living being of flesh and blood,
We impose an image of our expectations and thoughts.
Maybe that is the reason we fail to understand ,
Why the one do not react in the manner we want.
For we have concocted a web of emotions and reasons,
Around a person that already has its own mannerism.
Thus the expectations, thus the pain.
When we say the loved one has changed,
Is it the person or our idea of it that has waned ?
For sometimes we tend to fall not for the one,
But for the idea of the one..
Hence behind the same face and soul,
Exists for us a person whom we mould.
And thus they say sometimes unrequited love is strong,
For it is not the person but his idea that stays along.
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